Sometimes we carry a very specific fantasy, kink, or secret desire within us that we deeply yearn to share with our partner. Yet in reality, the weight of shame is often so overwhelming that words fail us right when it matters most.
When you have made the conscious decision to confide in your partner, LustLink serves as a bridge. That is precisely why we developed the Outing feature.
The Exception to the Golden Rule
Normally, an ironclad rule governs LustLink (for instance, on the Bucket List or Wishlist): when sharing, only practices to which BOTH partners answered “Yes” are ever displayed.
The Outing feature is the sole exception to this rule. When answering a question in the catalog, if you deliberately check the Outing box, you tell the app: “This desire is so fundamentally important to me that my partner must see it in our evaluation, no matter what!”
In this case, the corresponding result is always displayed to your partner—completely independent of whether they answered the question positively or negatively.
Put It on the Table First, Talk About It Second
The concept behind this feature is refreshingly simple yet profoundly powerful: let technology shoulder the hardest, initial step for you!
By checking the Outing box, you gently release your well-kept secret into the open. As soon as you review your mutual results, the ice is already broken and the topic is naturally present. Once the initial hurdle of face-to-face vulnerability is cleared, it becomes vastly easier to converse about it together—calmly, openly, and free of judgment.
The Outing feature is your digital companion for overcoming shame-induced communication barriers. Use it to deepen your relationship and build even greater trust through radical honesty. Dare to share!
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